Hey Angel37,

Everyone will leave some day. If he left without much suffer, it is a bless, both for him and your family. Because he doesn't have to suffer pain, nor his love ones when seeing him in pain and nothing can be done to take it away. In buddhism, they say this is karma; to christian, it dues to God recalls. Whatever it is, it means everything is set behind from now on.

Let him stay in your memory and may his force be with you so that you will stay strong. Let him be proud of you.

We all too.

I believe Jessica will be proud of you too.


Doris

Dear Angel137,

I’m really sorry to hear about your loss. I know it must be very difficult for you at this time but I hope you’ll draw strength from what had happened. Remember, you have to be strong as you still need to take care of yourself, your mom and the rest of your siblings. Remember life must go on no matter how depressed the situation we are in.

It is really hard indeed to deal with the kind of emotions you have experienced at the moment, yet only time will heal or at least lessen the pain and grief in your heart. Meanwhile, please don’t hide your hurts or pains and feelings inside where they can harden your heart, talk to us in here or you can email me privately if you need someone to talk to.

Please accept my deepest condolence to you and your family. May your dad rest in peace and I pray that your mom will get well soon from her heart problem. And, I pray too that you and your family will hang tough during these times of difficulty.

Sincerely,
Su Far